How To Practice Self-Love This Valentine's Day
Nowadays, everybody is talking about self-care. For an entire industry, it has become a sort of buzzword. But what exactly does self-care mean? Is it just about eating right and staying fit? Why exactly is it so important to care about oneself anyway?
Most people implicitly understand that self-care refers to mental as well as physical well-being. Nobody wants to deal with the twin specters of anxiety and depression. But mental self-care is about more than just warding off mental illness: It is about having the right state of mind to live your best possible life.
The first step to realizing your full potential is to love and accept yourself. If you aren’t happy with who you are, you won’t be able to find joy or comfort in anything you do. Sadly, many people in this world get tripped up trying to be someone they’re not. These people end up exerting more energy masking their true selves than they do on activities they would actually enjoy. As the great British playwright Oscar Wilde is said to have said, “Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken.”
Once you have decided to live the life you were given, you then have to determine how you’re going to handle the obstacles the universe throws your way. In order to succeed, you must think optimistically. Every cloud has its silver lining, and every crisis can be an opportunity. If you think negative thoughts, then negative things are bound to happen. You play a big role in creating your own reality, and the more open you are to positive experiences the more likely you are to attract them.
Although it is important to believe the future will bear good tidings, it is equally important not to dwell on the past or worry about the future. Consider the old saying: “Yesterday is history. Tomorrow’s a mystery. Today is a gift. That’s why they call it the present.” There is a lot of truth contained in that aphorism. Live for the moment, and don’t let life pass you by. You don’t want to spend your later years regretting what could have been.
Whatever you do, make sure you surround yourself with the right people. Whether you are an extravert or an introvert, everyone necessarily spends much of their life interacting with other people. For best results, maximize the time spent with people you love. You never know how many moments you’ll have with friends and family, so it’s best to capitalize whenever you have the chance.
As you’re living your life, make sure you are devoting it to activities and interests that you want to do, rather than on those that you think you are supposed to do. It is said that if you choose a job that you love, you’ll never work a day in your life. These are wise words. Following your passion is a recipe for a full and happy life.
Even if you are following all of the steps above, it is still easy to get caught up in the rat race. Take time periodically to step back and assess your quality of life. What changes can be made? How can you demonstrate more self-care? A great way to do this is to spend time with one of NAIPO’s massager products. When using an at-home massager, you can truly relax and forget about life for a while. When you are done, you will emerge refreshed and reinvigorated. You’ll be ready and eager to get back on the path to a happy and healthy life.